Showing posts with label 1 Nephi. Show all posts
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Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How an Attitude of Gratitude Can Help Strengthen our Marriages

Remember the talks that my husband and I gave on Sunday?
Here is his notes for his talk..Enjoy!

  • "Attitude" of Gratitude
    • It's more than just saying "Thank you"
    • Gratitude must be sincere
    • We show sincerity through our actions, as well as words, and that sincerity must be present at all times and not just after someone has done something for you.
  • Gratitude to the Lord
    • Why are we told to "remember" so often in the scriptures?
      • Remembering a lot of times represents gratitude
    • What are we "remembering?"
      • To keep the commandments
      • To build our lives on Christ
      • To remember what the Lord has done for us
    • King Benjamin emphasized the importance of gratitude in conjunction with service
      • Mosiah 2:18-21
    • Why/What else do we remember?
      • It is part of our Baptismal Covenant to always remember the Sacrifice of the Atonement made by Christ
      • Christ describes this in 3 Nephi 18:11
    • When we forget, that's when problems start
      • Laman and Lemuel
        • 1 Nephi 7:11
        • 1 Nephi 17:45
        • "Ye are swift to do iniquity but slow to remember the Lord your God"
      • Children of Israel
        • Another example of a lack in "sincere" gratitude
        • Read Headings to Exodus 14-17
        • Moses goes into Sinai, they quickly forget and worship a golden calf
        • One of the main reasons for the lower law of Moses was so that the people would remember God!
          • Deuteronomy 6:7-9
    • Good examples of those who remembered to be grateful
      • Story of Leper who returned
        • Luke 17:12-19
          • All 10 were obedient
          • Was truly grateful and blessed for it.
      • There are many good examples of gratitude in the scriptures
      • Christ, Himself, is another good example
        • Disciples are baptized and receive the Holy Ghost; he commands them to pray, and then he prays
        • 3 Nephi 19:20
        • the Disciples continued to pray unceasingly; Jesus prays again
        • 3 Nephi 19:28
        • Christ was the perfect example of gratitude
    • Gratitude to our spouses
      • Story of a family from mission
        • Lack of gratitude
        • She was baptized and he was not (her 2 kids were, too)
        • He began to avoid her because of her decision to be baptized
        • Resented her for the change she made in her life
        • He was not grateful for anything that she did
        • They divorced
      • Story of last Christmas with the decorations and Brittany
      • Gratitude is a form of service
      • It feels good to be appreciated
      • Strength in a marriage comes from happiness, love, and peace. These blessings come as a result of the presence of the Spirit in the home. When we show sincere gratitude to the Lord and to our spouses, we invite the Spirit into our homes.
  • With Thanksgiving coming up, I wanted to share some of the things I am grateful to my wife for:
    • Sher left school, friends, and family to be with me
    • She works hard to provide for us while I'm in school
    • She helps keep our home a clean place where the Spirit can dwell
    • She makes me feel good about myself when I am down
      • Saturday's test
    • She puts up with my imperfections
    • She led a clean and worthy life so that we could be married in the temple
    • She has a testimony of Christ and of the Gospel
  • I am also grateful to my Heavenly Father:
    • Eternal Families
    • Holy Ghost
    • The Gospel (It's saving ordinances and covenants)
    • Prophets and Scriptures
    • Personal Revelation
    • The Sacrifice of His Son
It is my testimony that we will grow closer to the Lord and to our spouses as we exercise an attitude of sincere gratitude.